I gave my H the ultimatum. I think this is what is called "after the LRT". e wanted to see OW after they already had decided not to have any contact. He also wanted us to do a trial S,where he was going to live in our other house 3 days a week, live here at home 4 days a week, and have his "freedom" on days where he was not here. I put my foot down. Enough of being a doormat. I said either we spearate completely or start working on the marriage. No more OW. No trial separations. Decide in one minute.
He backed off!
Now he is angry but I feel empowered. The ball is back in my court.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
