MLC or just an EA?

[angel61]

Thank you!

Another thing....I talked to OW, and everything you and I suspected was correct. She was really the one who backed off, even from the friendship. She told him that he had to work on his marriage, not project his feelings on to her. She was very uncomfortable maintaining the communication with him and so gradually stopped talking to him (phone) and refused to see him. She agreed not to let him know we were talking.

So apparently H is living in a fantasy world where he thinks that he can still continue pursuing OW and she would change her mind. But she said she won't talk to him until his marraige is working fine.