Thanks for staying in touch. I hope you are very successful in your job. Use your DB skills there as well, and in your relationship with your STBX over the kids. If something isn't working, do something different, and if it isn't broke, don't fix it. You seem to be a very a good person.
It's very easy to get a closed heart after divorce, especially if a spouse had an affair. You don't seem to be in that place, you seem to have an open heart, even though you want to wait to get into a relationship (very wise).
