Yowzer! You were definitely keeping your head in the sand back then, FIB. I guess we all do it. I look back over my 27 year history with my ex, and even though most of those years were great - I realize now how hard I must have worked to NOT see how bad his issues were. And they were always there, from the beginning!!!
Ditto!!!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
