Alright, I'm going to lay this out so some of you will get off my fu#@ing back.
I live in a no fault state and we've been vested in each other for over ten years. That pretty much means, she gets the home, custody and half my money and I get to live in my car, okay?
She wants to do the D ASAP, and I have to stall until such time as this infatuation with freedom and OM fizzle out. I want to live with and take care of my kids, I don't want freakin' visitation, okay!
Right now she's a conflicted, guilty feeling, stubborn, vindictive and confused person trying to justify her plans. My goal is to not only throw a wrench into those plans, but to show her things can be better in the M than she expects. For that I need time. In that frame, she'll either come around or decide not to.
This has nothing to do with my personal ego, self respect, cake eating, boundaries or any of that other crap. I'm trying to re-establish a connection here, capiche? Gimne a fu#@ing break!
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
