MLC or just an EA?

[angel61]

I did it!
Today he brought up trisl S where he stays 3 days a week in other house, has freedom to do whatever when he is not here, and is home 4 days.
I put my foor down. I said, I want us to fully separate, if thats the case. I used Being Me's words: I love you, but doing that is like asking me to put my life on hold. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. What you want is having your cake and eating it, assuaging your guilt. I will have none of that.
He backed off, asked me what I wanted.
I said I want us to stay together and try to save our marriage. I said I wanted us to look into D11's eyes at the end and say we honestly tried, and if it still won't work, then we part ways.I wanted us to try to live together as friends for now, no expectations, but to keep that door open. I don't want us to do "trials' or whatever, close the door slowly. We decide to close it later, thats it. Period.

I feel empowered!