Gypsy, I agree. I'm going to back thru that last box that I am going to leave her and pull all that 'to my wife' cards, DVDs, etc, that I put in there and toss them in the trash. Totally agree.
Today, cleaning up, I found a small piece of paper that X and I 'signed' as a contract after a big fight we had many years ago. The paper is scribbled:
-no threats (divorce/leaving) -X stays in control -no throwing -no discussing x's -focus on the argument -no discussing the past -no evil
X and I both signed it as a pact but as you can see, years before 2007, X wife had issues which I 'overlooked'. Old stuff but final stuff.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
