Mystik, don't worry-- you called it "spew" for a reason! Your H was obviously ticked off and stressed about who knows what (heh heh) so he took it out on the dr. appt. I would never think to "clear" a dr.appt with exH!!! You are his mom! geez.
You did well to get out of that conversation. Keep up the strength!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004