Thanks bluestar. I ended up going to bed, once the sleeping meds kicked in I was all set.
H doesn't know I have a lawyer, wanted that to be a surprise for him. But yeah, he was being unreasonable. He expects me to tell him every time I keep DS home from school for crying out loud. I am the physical custodial parent, I agree that unless it's major like he needs surgery or needs braces or a life and death matter that there's no need to consult him. If he wants to know all those day to day details then he should have come home.
However knowing all that doesn't stop me from feeling stressed over his phone call.
New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303