Can I Get My Wife Back

[Phenix70]

The GAL activity will totally remove your mind from the situation you find yourself in. It is typically something just outside of your normal comfort zone.

I know I'm a Newbie here, but truer words have never been spoken.
My GALing has been things that I either just put off because it made me uncomfortable or things I got lazy about.
Now when I do those things, it takes my mind off my sitch, I actually get into a zone when I'm working out & when I'm doing other things, I don't waste time thinking about my H.
It's my "All About Me" time.
I think when you truly do the GALing for yourself, your spouse isn't even part of the equation.