yesterday was okay, when H got home we talked about our day and lil un, i had to force myself to not talk about R as i so wanted to but i did stop myself and i think it made for a pleasant night we even arranged to go on a date tonight so that was nice. I told my H i took the 5 love languages test and find that my language is Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation, when i went onto FB last night H had put how he enjoyed skating with his lovely W, this tickled me and i told him last night how little comments like that tickle me, we both laughed (in a good way) and he gave me a kiss and said 'thats nice to know, i had better tickle you more often from now on' again him saying this tickled me again but i did not tell him this time. I guess what i have come to realise, i need to detatch and GAL, i need to take better care of myself and i have realised my H doesnt hae all the answers and needs as much guidance as me in the R especially on little things that we like (i hope this wasnt R talk)