"Ok I sent her a text message asking to move back home. Told her I would stay in another room and not bother her allowing her to go about her daily life."

Are you sure this is really something you want to do?

And this.. this just has me really questioning what you hear coming from her mouth..

"1: Don't be controlling.
2: Don't worry about who is on her phone before she picks it up.
3: Don't be an [censored].
4: Don't text other women at all.
5: Don't yell at everyone all the time.
6: Don't assume stuff.
7: Don't obsess over stuff.
8: Don't be compulsive."

For a woman who has her foot out the door.. there should be a lot more descriptive words there. I am not sure if it is your man brain condensing the words down.. or if she really just said that. She has no reason to say those things.. cause all she has to say to sum them up is.. I want out. I really think the next time you talk to her you should take notes. Write down the stuff she says while it is fresh in your mind. Those words you gave me just don't indicate to me that she is ready to move on. It is clearly a list of things you need to fix.. before she ponders whether to come back or not. Most WAW will not give you a list of stuff to fix.. they will just tell you that you can't "fix" it.

I still stand by my 3rd post to you..

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2110902#Post2110902

Wanna start over and give it another try?

"I understand what get a life is, but please explain to me your version."

The GAL activity will totally remove your mind from the situation you find yourself in. It is typically something just outside of your normal comfort zone.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.