"I almost broke down, it was so painful. Because this should be a team effort for our son, and i felt very alone handling it all on my own. ITs just me and my baby in this huge house all weekend....difficult when youre whole family should be together...."
Yet.. But, these are the moments that define you as a person do they not?
Tell me what worked the last time you DB'd?
"Weird thing, is this has happened every 3 years almost to the month."
So you can clearly see the cycle. Why did you come full circle again?
"Once we reconciled the last time, i asked her to promise me, if it got bad again, grab me by the hands, sit me down, and tell me its bad again."
Are you really gonna tell me that you need her to hand hold you thru this? Did you really not see it coming.. again?
"She threw a huge guilt trip on me. "I dont see why you are being so inflexible, if you really loved your son as much as you claim, you would reschedule your appt. I really need that therapy, but I did end up rescheduling and taking my son who ended up being very sick that morning."
Don't let her push you into a corner. Or.. don't let her drive your life from "her house". 99% of this stuff is controlling things where you can and being smart enough to see the chances.
What is weird to me.. is this post was your best one. It showed some emotion. Answer the questions.. think about them. Don't give me canned answers.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
