MLC or just an EA?

[angel61]

No, its been 6 months only since this all started. He stopped talking to OW last Nov. 26, and I think he is right now in the midst of the realization that she is slowly sinking out of sight and suddenly is desperate.
I did have the feeling that OW is distancing partly because he has become obsessive, I actually used the word "stalking" once and he really blew up on me! I once saw an email from OW profusely thanking him about all the help he GAVE, and being a woman, I read between the lines that she was saying "enough!" When he realized she wasn't interested he tried to convince her to be a friend and at first she acquiesced but later on maybe found him to demanding. I guess since my H has MLC and his ego needs to be stroked it is so hurting for him to be dumped.

I will see what happens when I go home. If he insists on visiting OW, then maybe, just maybe, I will get the strength to say those words. I like the part about "we still love you".