Mine married the OW two weeks after our divorce was final, less than 18 months after he first dropped the bomb. He is still active in the kids lives, but they see the hypocrisy of his life (he and new mrs. x preach christianity) and the kids feel short-changed by him. And the ironic part is I hear that he complains about the new wife the same way he complained about me....new marriage, same old problems.....hmm maybe cuz you didn't do anything to change YOU!!! So he threw away his family only to end up in the same situation....just more money.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
