Had a long talk after work with wife and she say's she understands my feelings. She also said that the contact has to stop, her problem is that as she moves on, she does not want the om to end up hating her. Maybe guilt is coming into play here, but I told her its time to start worrying about us and our family. He should have thought about that when he got involved with a married women.
She also said that the emotional connection is starting to wane with him.
SBH maybe there is something to the respect thing by drawing a line in the sand, I did it in a calm and compasionate way.
I too told her I will NOT share you with anyone.
Very important to validate their feelings even though you hate what they are saying.
I know this could change in a minute ,but for now I think we are on the same page.
I'm going to take a break from the forum this weekend,but will update everyone when/if something happens.
Thanks,SBH and everyone here, as it really helps to get all this out.
