Since our SA meeting on Tuesday H has been pretty communicative. Email, phone calls, talked to me about his dad and yesterday I received an email where he is informing me that he's joined a political party and that he would like to get involved in the campaign. This really has nothing to do with me, yet he chose to tell me about it.
H was supposed to come over yesterday to use my computer, but it didn't happen until this morning. When he came I offered him a latte, he asked if he can make it...made one for each of us. One comment he made when he dropped something, he said "there is something wrong with my motor skills, I'm so clumsy, I keep dropping everything"....depression/stress related????
Then we went to my office and worked on the printing issue he had with his file. I was welcoming, relaxed and friendly, conversation was unforced and our old working together connection really showed...same comments, ideas, solutions...we complimented each other. I wasn't exactly flirty, but was relaxed and smiling...couldn't help noticing H checking me out....I was wearing well fitting clothes that really showed my figure and he kept glancing at my body....quite a few times.
Later we sat and talked a bit, about his Dad, D, business....the "almost" old H showed up today, that's for sure...no anger or attacks....
Few notables - From the subject of his dad, H started talking about his childhood. Brought up his mother (she died quite a few years ago), said my mother loved me I'm sure, but she would never show it in a nurturing way and come to think of it my dad is the same way....they are both kind of "cold fish", so in my childhood I never had that kind of love....he was on the verge of tears when he was saying that....he talked more about his parents....To me it looks like he is starting to work on his MLC issues.
He also told me that he is going to see his dad today and asked me if I would like to go with him. I said OK. So having dinner with H at his dad's house.....
Well I think that's enough news for one morning...we will see how tonight goes
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