decade of heartbreak

[Sad_but_happy]

Hi Cold... This is not easy and you are right about everyone needing a different approach to save their M.

I did read your whols sitch and you and W have been through a ton. Very difficult...

I guess I just couldn't handle my W sharing herself with OM. I also realize that others have a different tolerance of what they can handle. If your heart can take it and you feel your W needs to ween her relationship slowly and that process brings her back to you, then go for it...

I really wish you luck... We are all in such awful and hurtful positions.