Thanks SBH for your input. I know from reading other posts that yours is more of a hard line approach. I think everyone may have to play their cards a little differently when trying to deal with this.
I have been doing the 180 and gal as much as possible and know I have to have an infinite amount of patience,maybe not showing that in my last action, but we all reach a point in time when enough is enough.
I know she still has strong feelings for om and I can deal with that and be understanding, but I don't think they should be talking to each other 3-5 times a day.
I guess I will see how tonight goes and yes I understand this is risky, but hell this has been going on one way or another for 5 yrs.
How can she be willing to work on her marriage and console her om everytime he has a problem.
If you've all read the beginning post, you can see we both have enough on our plate with our family to fix.
I'll keep everyone posted, hopefully there is something that someone could learn from this mess.
