H came here yesterday after dropping D back home. (I was busy at the time and I think in some way perhaps I resented the interruption). He returned my dishes from the meal the other night and came in for about 15 minutes. Told me how busy he was with work, asked what I was up to and some other small talk. He said he may come up later in the week but he was so busy with work ...... I so wanted to say yes, but your D should be first but I knew it was a waste of time.