Coach,

I guess what I'm saying that how I react in a business setting is different than how I react in a marriage. A business partner is just that a partner in business.
I think the analogy is off because it's EASY to see how you'd react in a business setting. Because it's business and not marriage. It doesn't do a lot of good to challenge how I would react in a setting that isn't applicable to marriage.
With a marriage its different. So the reactions are different.
For example, from a business standpoint, a couple would never have kids. It's too expensive and not enough ROI over the long haul. But as you know, we do have kids because we react differently to marriage.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.