Thanks. I have a good idea why it happened. (I don't think it happened because she just fell out of love with me and in love with the OM) We have touched on it. I understand it doesn't really matter what you call it, but how you address it.
My question was actually more specific. Is it important that she see it as an EA rather than "just some emails?" It's easier to dismiss in her mind if it was "just some emails" by her admitting it was there was an emotional component makes it harder to dismiss. however, in the long run it is important for her to see it for what it was in order to address it.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
