Need Help on a Decision Fast

[fisherman]

My lawyer even is trying to push me into the D.

Well sure he is, that's his job. That's how he puts food on the table.

Remember. He is working for you and you can tell him to fark off at anytime if he isn't respecting you or your wishes.....well maybe not to fark off, but I think you get what I mean.

Goodfight, you've been around this crazy stuff long enough to know the deal. Dig deep for that confidence, It's in there.

[fisherman]

Drew, I know I need to stop trying to figure out what he is thinking it is just so darn hard.

It's work!! You have to make a conscious effort to catch yourself in the act and put a stop to it. You can do it!

When you really truly let go of him and your fear, it won't be so tough.

[MrBond]

It's not necessarily contradictory. It's been shown here that once you take the attention off of your spouse, they do start thinking about you. I don't think the thinking about the LBS ever goes away, it just gets "changed" for lack of a better term.

Anyhow, keep yourself busy living your life to its fullest. Do what you want to do to have fun and really enjoy. No faking.

[Goodfight]

Thanks Mr. Bond, Trapt, and Drew. Trapt you are so right, I've been around long enough to know that I don't know what is going through H's head and I should know better.

Also, the lawyer stuff......I do know that it is their job to put food on the table but sometimes you would think that they would still have a heart in their bodies, and would think they wouldn't want a D.

Trapt thanks so much for dropping in.....I haven't heard from you in a while. I love the fark part. LOL You are right on that one too. If he says one more time about me pushing the D faster I will tell him to fark off. I've had enough of people telling me what I should do as far as H goes......friends and family. I love H and will continue to stand for our M.

[Goodfight]

I hate this no edit thing too! Anyway, does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could word it to H if he asks why I contested the D?

[Drew]

"Because I don't believe divorce is the answer."

And leave it at that.

[Goodfight]

Thanks Drew.

[Goodfight]

Drew, what is your sitch?

[Drew]

Just an oldtimer paying it forward.