H remained upbeat yesterday. He has been calling me more often at work, to talk about work but he lingers and chats more. I try to be the one to cut it off, but I have to admit, it makes my day. Hard to detach from good stuff, but NEED it for the bad.
He brought up needing to send money to the employee in OW's home country. Pretended to ask for suggestions, so I said Fedex, etc. I think he was hoping I would suggest OW, so he won't be guilty about breaking contact! No way!
He brought up talking to our rental manager/real estate person regarding rental. I think the idea of having an a place to go to when he needs space appeals to him. I surprisingly did not feel bad about it....I'm thinking that we can even alternate using the house as our "escape". Who knows, the time apart could lead to a better relationship.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
