What I have noticed about people with strong, healthy boundaries when something like and EA or PA happens to them.
They may get angry, but they quickly get than under control.
They know what is right and what is wrong, and they tend to figure out pretty quickly that they need to enforce their boundaries, and they may confront an expose the OP if there's a a resonable chance pressure can be brought to bear on that person.
They seek legal advice rather quickly, and they state their boundary and are prepared to enforce it all in short order.
People with healthy boundries are decisive when this happens. What you sometimes have to remind them of is the consequences of divorce just so you are certain they are taking those into account, but they tend to approach these problems with certainty, resolve and courage.
And things don't drag on and on with them. Things work out one way or the other rather quickly compared to situations where you are dealing with people with weak or nonexistent boundaries.
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