"Maybe its just me but why can't I shake my gut feeling my w has om. There is no evidence to prove it just a feeling I can't shake."
That's alot of your insecurity talking. Weren't you jealous if your W talked to people even before this happened? Plus after you had your As you probably thought that she would be the same as you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Ok I sent her a text message asking to move back home. Told her I would stay in another room and not bother her allowing her to go about her daily life.
Most importantly...if you get the okay to move back, you CANNOT start acting like the same jealous person you were. You have to start controlling your actions and emotions or else you'll find yourself at step one all over again.
Are you ready to do that?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
"Ok I sent her a text message asking to move back home. Told her I would stay in another room and not bother her allowing her to go about her daily life."
Are you sure this is really something you want to do?
And this.. this just has me really questioning what you hear coming from her mouth..
"1: Don't be controlling. 2: Don't worry about who is on her phone before she picks it up. 3: Don't be an [censored]. 4: Don't text other women at all. 5: Don't yell at everyone all the time. 6: Don't assume stuff. 7: Don't obsess over stuff. 8: Don't be compulsive."
For a woman who has her foot out the door.. there should be a lot more descriptive words there. I am not sure if it is your man brain condensing the words down.. or if she really just said that. She has no reason to say those things.. cause all she has to say to sum them up is.. I want out. I really think the next time you talk to her you should take notes. Write down the stuff she says while it is fresh in your mind. Those words you gave me just don't indicate to me that she is ready to move on. It is clearly a list of things you need to fix.. before she ponders whether to come back or not. Most WAW will not give you a list of stuff to fix.. they will just tell you that you can't "fix" it.
"I understand what get a life is, but please explain to me your version."
The GAL activity will totally remove your mind from the situation you find yourself in. It is typically something just outside of your normal comfort zone.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
So.. out of the entire post.. all you got out of it was that your list was correct?
"Forest gump I swear to u thoses were her exact words in fact I cut and pasted her post"
I am confused.. maybe you can help me out. From what I read you confronted her and a discussion in sued.
Then you..
"ask her what changes i needed to make and she provided a list but said there was two much to change and that she would be crazy to take me back as miserable as i make her."
Where exactly did she POST this list? Did she have the list in her hand? Did she email it to you later? Did she post it on the I am married to a crazy person forum?
I understand that I am digging at you a bit. But.. you gotta get your head on straight sir.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
