Well I decided to do nothing and she would get the phone when she got home. She said she was enjoying the piece and quiet.

Today I had to pay the cell phone bill and noticed they are talking during work hours more and more.(no way is it all work related)

I want to have as good a Christmas as possible, but this is starting to put a big cloud over everything.

She went to his house over 2 months ago and told him she wanted to work on her marraige and family, now I'm not so sure.

I think I should have a talk with her tonight and get to the bottom of this. Is she initiating the the contact? Maybe, then do I tell her I will not live in an open marriage?

I am sure the PA has ended,but the EA obviously has not and I don't think OM
coworker is going to let her alone. It has been 4-5 mos. since the A was found out,is it to early to set the text/phone boundary.

I was hoping it would die out on its own.

Need advice please!