My wife is the same unhappy person she was when I left. My absence has not made her life any better. It helps me realize that largely, I was not the problem. I think somehow in our heads there's a part of us that buys into their bs and feels maybe, just maybe we played a large part in their unhappiness. In my case, WRONG!!!! My wife continues to fill her life with stressful situations and just carries on being the self centered angry stressed out person she was before. At least I don't have to face that crap day in and day out anymore. That's a blessing!
