Why does it take so long for the WAS to think clearly?
v1olin,
I have no clue. I received my bomb two months after you and have been separated for a long while now. We are just getting to the D now, and it due to her stress and blaming me for all of her stress. I've been there for her at all times (I know I haven't dropped the rope for her), but I just felt this is the way that I should do it. I think walking away from her would've just reinforced things she was saying at the time.
Looking back, maybe I could have done some things differently or better, but I can't dwell on that. Time to D so her stress can be alleviated. D from me = no stress.
Good luck to you v1olin!
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4
