Just catching up and am sorry to read about your FIL...cancer [censored].
I am glad that you are strong enough that if your H needs to talk about his father that you are able to offer a shoulder and listen. It seems he still looks to you to be the pillar...
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing