Teach me grasshopper!!!

Exactly how does this double-secret probation work? If I don't tell him what I want then how can he ever decide if he is willing to give that?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!