Btw sandi, I've read many of your posts and they have helped me greatly... I respect that more than anything...

So I'm interested in your opinion here... Because I would have a mental breakdown knowing my W was continuing an EA... That's why I had to set that firm boundary...

Do you really think Punchy should not set that boundary or ultimatum if that's what you want to call it?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012