Isn't that bizarre? The OW in my H's life is so insecure and jealous of me it's unreal. He's never nice to me, doesn't express any concern or interest, but she knows how she came by him, and what goes around comes around. If they can do it with you, they can do it to you.
Glad some of you are getting hugs out there. At least if they are hugs that aren't confusing.
ILMN, in my husband's case, it was easier to blame me for his 'dysfunction' than deal with the actual causes. A big load of guilt doesn't help, either.
Mila, is that little spark keeping hope alive good or bad? Is it truth, or is it just for his own self satisfaction that you are hanging in there? These are just questions I ask myself, but I'm in the position of backing away from my M, or as I like to call it, 'Standing Down'
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
