25yearsmic, she is cheating on him IN FRONT OF HIM!!!! The first rule in any A is for the spouse to STOP! Unless he wants to live in an open marriage. Would you let YOUR WIFE have sex with another man and then tell you "too bad"? An EA is far more damaging then a PA. women are built on emotion and the longer his W is involved in it the harder it will be for her to detach.

You, set the boundary and yes follow through.

Or let her cheat in front of you!

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012