Notready.

I understand what you feel. The sick in the gut feeling never goes away. It is fear. It may be hidden when things look up but then it can come roaring back in like a lion.

If I was in your sitch, I would pick a date after Dec and just do it.. you dont need to run anything through her filter if she is more committed to the path of divorce than R. I would simply do it and make her wonder why. She will know..


M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10