Again, this is MHO, but every year at this time I see a lot of excuses that the LBS uses to give gifts to the WAS. It is pursuing when it is between LBS & WAS.
Here's what some folks don't understand. Say that the LBH was never great at giving personal gifts. So now, he is thinking he's doing a 180 by giving her a Christmas present. However, it could be one of those things that you should not do while in LRT b/c it will not set well with her. It could be a huge turn-off. Especially if the WAW has left the home. It does not seem appropriate.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
