Antonia,

They are not the same person we married, so along with zero expectations, be prepared for anything. If you are going to make any gesture, make sure you are prepared for any reaction on your MLCer's part.

Your H is self centered and entitled right now. He will make anything you do all about him. He will not consider your feelings or trust that anything you do concerning him is without an agenda.

At some point, hopefully your H will emerge, look at that album and appreciate your thoughtfulness in giving it to him and the wonderful memories those pictures evoke.

(((Hugs))) you're doing great!