Not a problem. This is all very good information. I was thinking about what the aftermath might be if she does end the EA. If she does end it, it looks like it will be a long time before she will want anything to do with me. But that's ok, as long as the OM is out of the picture then I will be much happier. And if she goes fine, at least I will have my dignity back.
I am concerned about her saying its over, but continuing to keep it going especially because they work together. Will probably have to state that getting a new job is a part of the deal.