Who knows? Anything can happen. But I have a feeling that she did not say that.... that all she said was that she will not be guilty of breaking us up. PLus I don't think that she is that into him - I think she was flattered at first, as H is quite accomplished and very intelligent, plus she was thankful and appreciative of all he did for her (got her a good post-doctoral fellowship in a well known US institution where H has clout).I actually read an email where she was thanking him profusely for everyting and emphasizing that she was glad they were "friends".
But in H mind, I think he is still hoping or fantasizing that if he were free, OW will fall for him!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go