Angel, I have my own boundaries. If W leaves to "find herself", we are done! Do not let him eat cake... What? Leave three days a week to see OW and then come home and enjoy DD while you do ALL the work and raising! Tell him if he leaves to make it every day! Not three days a week but seven days a week.

It's not the guilt, he wants to eat cake!

Sorry to hijack Punch

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012