Honestly, I think self-aware husbands are even harder to deal with. My H diagnosed himself with MLC even before I researched what it was. Sometimes I feel he is ahead of me in assessing what how he reacts to what I do, Like when he told me that I should not be afraid to be strong and independent, as it did not mean he would leave me, he may even want to stay more with me. That was 3 weeks ago. Weird, as though he read DR book too. NOW he says he is going insane.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go