Hi Angel... Human nature is so predictable... Before I knew of the EA my wife and I would ML... after I found out that stopped. And when I set the boundary to end it she was even more angry... I believe it will take at least 6 months of NC with OP to start to see the light... Remember, they found something in OP that was missing... Something we DID NOT give them. They blame us for taking that much needed connection away...

So you and I are in the same boat. I suspect my wife will not leave cause I make the money. I'm ok with that as long as OM is gone. And if I can repair while she stays then great...

I wish you luck in your ditch...

We are both in the exact same boat...

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012