Even if EA ends, does not mean the hardship is over. My H ended EA after Thanksgiving, and I knew he would be depressed but I didn't realize what the impact would be on me.

The "alien" wall is even higher, its not only like living like roomates but sleeping with the enemy.

So Punchy, watch out for when that happens. BTW, I did the while you wait concept. Could not set boundaries.... but I also knew H would choose D11 over OW, and when OW realized that, she backed off.

Those of you who have been there, is it really that way? will the wall start breaking after H gets over his heartbreak with OW?

Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go