So, I contact my L to discuss this. Essentially he says it could be his L doing this (50% likely) bc she has things that are conflicting with this date. Or, it could be H (50%)...
I said I know that H has commitments in FL in Jan, maybe this could be the reason, but asked if he even needs to go to pretrial and he tells me 'no'. Neither of us do. So what is the hold-up? I told L not to respond until I have a chance to contact H to find out.
My L is freakin awesome BTW, as I have said before. He is not at all a creepy kind of guy, just FYI before I read the next part... L says: "I know this may be a little strange coming from a L but I have been doing this 35 years. Often I can sit across the room and see why someone is getting divorced. In your case, it keeps bothering me trying to figure out why he wants to divorce you. I mean, what the f***, I mean what the heck is he thinking?" I have been LMAO since he said that Essentially, L told me that if they ask for an adjournment, they will get it. He said this judge won't think twice about it. And, he said it will probably be another month. Ugh. I am torn. Yes I want to fight for my marriage but I don't want to fail my boards either. Limo land does effing suck!!!
So, as promised, I texted re: getting my things... "Heading out to the house in about 1 hr. May take today and tomorrow. I think we should talk about the adjournment. Maybe coffee or something?"
H: "I am actually at the house sick. Didn't get anything together for you. sorry"
Me: "OK. I will stop tomorrow. No need to get anything together for me- just if you find random things (around the house). Hope you feel better.
No response. Nada. Zilch. Does he really think I am still coming and gonna hang out with him? He knew I would be coming over and didn't bother to tell me he would be there? He had told me I didn't need to let him know when I was coming just to go whenever I wanted. This man hasn't taken a day off of work for illness since I met him. Something here is fishy.
Sure hope he isn't still sick tomorrow It was tough not to ask what was wrong and if I could bring him something but that is about the last thing he deserves at this point.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
It was tough not to ask what was wrong and if I could bring him something but that is about the last thing he deserves at this point.
