Great insight. I am not sure that my heart can take this. I have told her that the EA is wrong and needs to end, but I didn't give her the ultimatum. This is what I am wrestling with. Is the tough love approach the way to go, or is there another option. The MWD approach seems to be of the while you wait concept, where as a lot of the people posting on the forum say to lay down the law.

I am really struggling with deciding on the best approach.