Your feelings are common. Some of the posters on here touched on being responsible for your own happiness and state of mind. Its all part of the GAL regiment. The GAL regiment will put you in contact with things you like to do and people would can inject new life into you.
Many of us who have GAL'd looked more attractive to the spouse and things start back up.
The main reason for GAL is that "you have to do it anyway". Whether you leave or stay.
