Your ml'er does not have the capacity to have a healthy relationship at this time. This OW will not be any different. MLC is a regression, they leave all their responsibilities behind, they rebel, push buttons and project. NO MATTER WHAT WE DO OR SAY. Let him be someone elses problem now.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11