W told me of 2 month EA in early October I insisted she break it off I believe NC since early November She says she is not sure if she ever loved me I beg, cry, gifts, flowers, cards for the next month I have not done any begging, gifts, etc for the past 3 weeks Some R talk but not much
Here is the update... We sleep in the same bed
We are reading "Surrender to Marriage" in bed each night (she got from the library on her own based on advice from IC). Its a pro-marriage book
I have been offered a new job in another state and she says she wants to go (away from EA and OM)
We watch TV and and have wine together every night
No talk of seperation or D in over 6 weeks
We talk of future vacations and the possible new home in another state
We are looking at new homes on the internet together
Here is why I'm confused... We have not kissed or ML in months
No real emotional connection yet (at least that's how I feel)
When asked a few nights ago if she is committed to making the marriage work she still can't answer (this is the big one for me and I really should not have asked. BIG BACKSLIDE)
Am I in piecing?
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
