If you find yourself with time on your hands, read the DB/DR book again. It helps to go through it a couple times. Also do a 180 on what is NOT WORKING. Do something "completely different."
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."