He's re-evaluating everything just as you have been doing. He's deciding what is the "right" decision for him, same as you. If you start agreeing with having him out of your life, then he'll start wondering why.
In theory perhaps... but no one knows this for sure. You can spin in circles trying to read into every little detail of every interaction and get NOWHERE.
The quote above, is a bit contradictory to what you have below.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
Control your own actions and thoughts because you can't control or assume to know what his are.
I like this ^^ much better. No one but your H really knows what's going on in his head and FTR, even he's probably having a helluva time trying to figure it out.